Navigating Perimenopause and Menopause: A Retreat in France
A restorative retreat for women navigating perimenopause, menopause, identity shifts, and the deep work of self-trust.
Key details at a glance
RETREAT LOCATION | Château de Puissentut|
REGION | Gers, southwest France
TRIP DURATION | 6 nights / 7 days
PARTICIPANTS | Small group, usually up to 12 guests
WHO IT'S FOR | Women navigating perimenopause, menopause, and the transition into a new chapter of life. Solo travellers and introverted women are welcome.
HIGHLIGHTS | Exclusive use of Château de Puissentut, guided ACT-based workshops with Seoka, gentle movement and somatic practices, menopause education and Q&A with Laura Duncan, MD, stunning views, local experiences and a small-group setting.
GROUP STYLE | An intimate, small-group retreat with facilitated conversation, reflection and shared experiences.
FACILITATOR | Seoka Salstrom, PhD, psychologist, coach, educator and co-founder of Athara Adventures.
PRICE | From €3,950 per person, depending on room occupancy and starting date. Final pricing is confirmed for each retreat. Prices include applicable VAT/taxes.
EARLY-BIRD RATE | Save 10% when you book by 31 December 2026.
WHAT'S INCLUDED | Accommodation, retreat programme, meals and activities. See what's included.
PAYMENT OPTIONS | Payment plans and multi-currency checkout
UPCOMING DATES | April 28 - May 4, 2027
A reflective retreat for women navigating perimenopause, menopause, change, and a deep reorientation of self
This retreat creates time away from routine to pause, reconnect with yourself, and understand the changes unfolding within you. Within a calm, psychologically grounded retreat for women, it offers meaningful menopause support and space to reflect on what this stage of life is asking of you, and how to meet it with clarity, confidence, and compassion.
“Amid the daily noise and rush of responsibilities, many of us feel a quiet pull toward something deeper and more purposeful. A desire to slow down and reflect on what truly matters.”
Athara Retreats by Seoka Salstrom, PhD, offers an opportunity to do just that.
Many women reach a point where the shape of life begins to change quietly but profoundly. Energy shifts. Sleep becomes less predictable. Emotions may feel closer to the surface. What once worked physically, emotionally, or practically no longer does in the same way.
Perimenopause and menopause often arrive alongside other transitions. Children growing more independent. Careers evolving or burning out. Relationships shifting. A growing awareness that your inner world is asking for something different. There may be a sense of grief for what has passed, alongside a pull toward something more honest, more alive, more aligned.
There is no pressure to have everything figured out. Your week will combine guided conversation and reflection with shared experiences, time outdoors, delci food and plenty of space to simply be.
What your week might look like:
A Warm Welcome
Arrive, settle into Château de Puissentut| and begin the week in a relaxed, supportive small-group setting.
Guided Conversations
Facilitated sessions with Seoka, exploring the questions and possibilities that can come with perimenopause.
Movement & Embodiment
Daily embodied movement, mindfulness, and somatic practices tailored to the women present.
French Culture
Markets, villages, local food and opportunities to experience everyday life in southern France.
Meaningful Conversations
Share perspectives and learn from women navigating perimenopause and life beyond.
Space for Yourself
Time to read, journal, rest or simply enjoy the peaceful, expansive surroundings of Château de Puissentut.
Nourishing Food
Chef-prepared meals that support wellbeing while celebrating French food culture.
Time Outdoors
Forest and mountain surroundings, gardens, terraces and opportunities to step away from everyday routines.
Have a question before booking?
If this perimenopause retreat feels right for you, but you’d like to ask about availability, suitability, pricing or anything else before booking, we’re happy to help.
A wellness retreat designed to strengthen self-trust during midlife transition
This time can be both freeing and disorientating. For many women in their forties and fifties, it is a time when long-held roles, expectations, and ways of living begin to loosen. You may have spent years caring for others, sustaining families, building careers, or carrying responsibilities that shaped your identity.
As your body and energy change, a quiet space can open up. It can feel unfamiliar, even unsettling, to turn inward and ask: Who am I now? What do I want next? What truly matters to me at this stage of my life?
This retreat exists to meet that moment with honesty, warmth, and depth. It provides the time and space to pause, reconnect with your own needs, and explore this next chapter without pressure to have everything figured out.
Surrounded by nature and supported by thoughtful facilitation, humor, and a sense of camaraderie, you will explore what matters to you now, what you want to carry forward, and what you are ready to release.
It is a grounded, experiential, reflective retreat for women who feel ready to realign with themselves in a meaningful way.
What’s included and pricing
Everything you need for the core retreat experience is brought together across the week, with time and space to make the experience your own.
What’s included
Six nights’ accommodation at Château de Puissentut
ACT-based workshops with Seoka Salstrom, PhD
Guided reflection and experiential activities
Shared group conversations and peer learning
Time for personal reflection, rest and connection
Chef-prepared meals with seasonal, locally sourced ingredients with thoughtful accommodation for dietary requirements
Guided hiking/walking experiences (optional) and access to walking trails
Local cultural experiences such as a visit to a French market
Daily gentle movement designed for you
Women’s health and post-menopause conversation with Laura Duncan, MD
Transport to and from Toulouse (50 mins)
Detailed packing list and travel/cultural tips
2-3 pre-retreat Zoom orientation meetings
Ongoing planning support leading up to the retreat
Optional post-retreat online community and reunion/s
What’s not included
Massage therapy and facials available for private booking
Airfare
Travel Insurance
Pricing
Prices starting from €3,950 and varies depending on your choice of single/shared accommodation and includes all VAT/taxes.
A 10% early-bird discount is available for bookings made by 31 December 2026. After this date, standard retreat pricing will apply.
Payment plans and multi-currency checkout are available.
This is a thoughtfully designed women’s retreat to support you through menopause
This retreat brings together grounded psychological insight, practical tools from Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and evidence-informed understanding of the physical and emotional changes that accompany perimenopause and menopause.
It is not therapy.
It is not a wellness escape.
It is a considered, emotionally intelligent space where you can understand who you are becoming, reconnect with your body and inner wisdom, and explore what comes next without judgement or pressure.
What might you take away?
A stronger sense of what matters to you, what you want to prioritise, and what you want to let go of.
Greater clarity
Wisdom from women living midlife and beyond on their own terms.
New perspectives
A greater ability to move forwards without needing everything to feel resolved.
Confidence and vitality
Meaningful relationships with women at a similar stage of life, and fresh perspective on what comes next.
Connection and possibility
Guided by experience, insight and care
The retreat is facilitated by Seoka Salstrom, PhD, a psychologist, coach and educator with more than two decades of experience supporting women through significant life transitions.
Her work has spanned healthcare, education, community settings and private practice, with a focus on helping people deepen self-understanding, build resilience and make choices aligned with their values and aspirations.
Throughout the week, Seoka will guide conversations, reflective exercises and experiential activities, creating space to step away from the practicalities of midlife and consider the broader questions this stage of life can bring.
Her approach is compassionate, thoughtful, collaborative and humorous. There is no prescribed version of what midlife should look like, and no expectation that you arrive with answers. Instead, the retreat creates space to reflect, ask questions and consider what matters to you now.
Seoka Salstrom, PhD
Psychologist, coach, educator and co-founder of Athara Adventures.
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Exploring the Emotions and Questions That Shape Perimenopause and Menopause
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Perimenopause and menopause involve a significant developmental transition, not only hormonally but emotionally and psychologically as well. Many women notice changes in sleep, energy, mood, cognition, and stress tolerance, alongside deeper questions about identity, purpose, and pacing.
These menopausal changes, sometimes experienced as brain fog or emotional reactivity, can feel unsettling or lead to self-doubt, particularly during periods of sustained stress or transition. For many women, they are recognised as early signs of menopause, even when cycles are still present or symptoms feel inconsistent.
This retreat offers space, guidance, and practical tools to understand these shifts more clearly. Through reflective sessions, experiential exercises, and gentle conversation, you will explore how your body and nervous system are responding, and begin working with these changes rather than against them, with greater understanding and self-compassion.
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Dr. Duncan will join the retreat for a virtual seminar to offer clear, evidence-based guidance on women’s health, including hormonal changes and the role of hormone therapy in whole-body health during midlife and beyond, with time for thoughtful, open Q&A.
About Laura Duncan, MD
Laura Duncan, MD, MPH, MSCP is a board-certified internist with over 20 years of experience in direct patient care, specializing in chronic disease management, women’s health, and shared decision-making. She earned her medical degree from the Geisel School of Medicine at Dartmouth and completed her Internal Medicine residency at Harvard Medical School’s Cambridge Health Alliance.
Dr. Duncan has served diverse populations in both inpatient and outpatient settings, including work with the Indian Health Service on the Navajo Nation in Arizona and in rural Utah, where she was also Medical Director of an Elderly Care Center.
She is the founder of Reclaim Menopause, PLLC, a practice dedicated to helping women across New Hampshire and Vermont navigate midlife transitions and reduce long-term health risks associated with hormonal decline.
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This retreat is guided by people who understand both the science of change and the lived experience of moving through it.
Seoka Salstrom, PhD, is a clinical psychologist with over twenty years of experience supporting women through periods of transition. Her work draws on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and neuroscience-informed approaches to help people build self-trust, emotional flexibility, and clarity during times of uncertainty. Seoka brings depth, steadiness, and warmth to the retreat space, holding conversations that are thoughtful, humane, and grounded in evidence.
She is supported by Sarah Newell, who offers consistent group care throughout the retreat. Sarah helps attend to the practical and relational aspects of the experience, ensuring that participants feel supported, oriented, and at ease as the group unfolds.
Together, the team creates a space that is psychologically safe, intellectually grounded, and deeply respectful of each woman’s experience. This is not about being led or fixed, but about being supported as you learn to listen more carefully to yourself.
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Together, we explore:
understanding who you are beyond long-held roles and expectations
emotional literacy and nervous system regulation during hormonal change
self-kindness as a powerful antidote to shame and burnout
boundaries, energy, and redefining success on your own terms
sleep support and evidence-based approaches to insomnia
reconnecting with vitality, play, and enjoyment, even in small bursts
listening to your body as a source of wisdom, not something to override
meeting uncertainty, fear, and possibility with grounded courage
These themes are approached gently and practically. Nothing is forced, and there is no expectation to share more than feels comfortable. The work unfolds at your pace, in a space designed for honesty, care, and genuine reconnection.
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This retreat is designed for women in their forties and fifties who feel that life is changing in ways that are hard to name but impossible to ignore.
You may be navigating perimenopause or menopause, noticing shifts in energy or sleep, questioning long-held expectations, or sensing a desire for a different rhythm, direction, or way of living. You may feel both relief and uncertainty as familiar roles loosen.
You do not need to identify with any single label to find this retreat meaningful. This space is for women who simply feel the pull to pause, listen inward, and understand what this stage of life is asking of them.
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you are navigating perimenopause or menopausal change
your energy, sleep, or emotional rhythm has shifted
your sense of identity feels in transition
you are experiencing burnout, fatigue, or emotional depletion
you want a women’s wellness retreat that goes beyond surface-level wellness
you crave reflection, depth, and honest conversation
you value evidence-informed guidance held with warmth
you want time in nature without pressure to perform
you are ready to redefine success on your own terms
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This retreat offers a rhythm that supports reflection without overwhelm. The days are structured enough to hold you, yet spacious enough for you to move at your own pace.
You will experience:
ACT-based workshops and experiential sessions
guided reflection, guided meditation and journalling
gentle, attuned morning movement designed with each woman’s experience in mind
meaningful, supportive group conversations
time outdoors for grounding and perspective
opportunities for play, enjoyment, and rest
optional massage and body treatments, yoga, and easy hiking
The experience follows a carefully designed, flexible flow rooted in neuroscience.
Deep Rest · Exploration · Integration
Frequent breaks, optional movement, and time in nature are woven throughout to support balance and nervous system regulation.
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By the end of the retreat, you will have created space to hear yourself more clearly and understand what this stage of life is asking of you.
The retreat does not promise grand transformation.
It offers something quieter and more sustainable.You will leave with:
a clearer sense of who you are beyond long-held roles
emotional tools to support perimenopause and menopause transitions
reduced shame and self-criticism around fatigue and burnout
improved understanding of sleep, stress, and energy
renewed confidence in your inner knowing
a calmer inner rhythm and more spacious perspective
meaningful connection with women on similar paths
practical ways to continue this reflective work at home
This lasting shift is supported by the retreat’s neuroscience-informed phases of Deep Rest, Exploration, and Integration.
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Held at Château de Puissentut in Homps, France, the retreat takes place in a beautifully restored medieval château surrounded by rolling hills, gardens, and open countryside.
The setting offers both connection and solitude. A space to gather and space to retreat inward.
You will have access to:
peaceful communal areas for reflection and conversation
gardens, woodland paths, and countryside walks
a pool (weather dependent) and areas for rest and relaxation
quiet indoor and outdoor spaces for journalling or contemplation
comfortable accommodation designed for deep rest
Everything about the environment is chosen to support calm, clarity, and reconnection.
Perimenopause and Menopause Retreat FAQs
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We intentionally create a psychologically safe, respectful space where each woman can show up as she is. Group sizes are kept small to allow depth, trust, and personal attention.
Confidentiality, mutual respect, and care for one another form the foundation of our shared agreements. There is no pressure to share more than feels right for you, and vulnerability is always invited, never required. Disruptive or disrespectful behaviour is not tolerated.
This retreat is designed to feel steady, contained, and supportive, particularly during a life stage that can feel tender or disorientating.
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The experience follows a carefully designed yet flexible flow rooted in neuroscience and psychological safety:
Deep Rest
Exploration
Integration
Each day balances structured sessions with spaciousness. Gentle movement, reflective practices, time outdoors, and optional activities are woven throughout to support nervous system regulation and avoid overwhelm.
There is no rigid schedule and no expectation to “keep up.” You are encouraged to listen to your body and energy as the week unfolds.
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Athara retreats are not stand-alone experiences. Support includes:
Pre-retreat orientation and preparation
Opportunities to connect with the group before arrival
Optional post-retreat group or individual follow-up sessions
Ongoing ways to stay connected in an online community
This helps the experience feel relational, steady, and integrated rather than abrupt or isolated.
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No. This retreat is not therapy and it is not a wellness escape. It is a reflective, psychologically-informed experience that draws on evidence-based approaches such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to support clarity, self-understanding, and intentional next steps.
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The entire ground floor and two of the bedrooms are accessible for wheel chairs. Both bedrooms, one of which is a double and the other can be either a double or twins, have wet rooms.
It is also possible to access the barn and the treatment rooms.
The garden is accessible with help. There are no steps but there are no paths either which means maneuvering across the grass. The pool terrace is accessible but not the pool.
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All booking journeys begin with a call with Seoka, either by filling out our enquiry form or by booking time on Seoka’s calendar.
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From €3,950 per person, depending on room occupancy and starting date. Final pricing is confirmed for each retreat. Early-bird pricing may also be available.
All accommodation, meals, and programmed activities are included, along with facilitated workshops, guided reflection, daily somatics and gentle movement, and retreat programming. Travel, optional spa treatments, and personal expenses are not included unless otherwise specified.
If the retreat feels like the right fit but the cost is a barrier, please contact us to discuss reduced-cost options.
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Yes. A 10% early-bird discount is available for bookings made by 31 December 2026. After this date, standard retreat pricing will apply.
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Yes, but a small one. We limit the retreat to 7–12 participants to cultivate connection with self and others. Many participants join solo, and strong bonds often form quickly in this nurturing, inclusive atmosphere.
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Absolutely. We are committed to sustainable and ethical travel, including:
Supporting local inns, guides, and artisans
Following Leave No Trace outdoor principles
Enjoying locally sourced, seasonal meals
We believe in honoring the people and land we visit.
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